Hello Reader,

A few weeks ago, I noticed something about my own habits.

Every morning there seemed to be another headline about children and technology.

• "Social media is destroying childhood."
• "AI is changing education."
• "Phones should be banned."
• "A new study says..."

I would read them. Sometimes I'd send them to friends. Occasionally I'd save one because I thought, I should probably know this.

But after reading enough of them, I realized something.

• The headlines were multiplying much faster than the conversations.
• Everyone seemed eager to tell parents what to think.
• Far fewer people were helping us think.

That's what led me to create something new for Infinite Halls.

Technology doesn't wait for us to finish processing one story before the next one arrives. Every week brings another study, another policy, another viral article, another prediction about AI or social media or childhood.

• Sometimes they're important.
• Sometimes they're misleading.
• Almost all of them deserve more nuance than a headline can provide.

So today I'm introducing a new recurring series called Hot Takes.

The idea is simple.

I'll invite someone I trust—a parenting expert, educator, researcher, or technology leader—and together we'll spend twenty minutes unpacking a few of the biggest stories making headlines.

Not to debate.

Not to declare winners and losers.

And certainly not to add more noise.

Just to slow down long enough to ask better questions.

For our first conversation, I invited my longtime friend Shalini Melwani.

Shalini (you know her from the last episode and Parenting Empowered) and I have worked together for years, which meant something wonderful happened almost immediately.

We disagreed.

When we discussed Australia's social media ban for children under sixteen, we came at it from different angles. We agreed that children deserve protection. We both believe technology companies should carry more responsibility. But we wrestled with a deeper question.

Parents?

Schools?

Governments?

Technology companies?

Another headline we discussed reported that nine out of ten parents argue with their children about technology.

That statistic didn't surprise either of us.

What surprised me was where the conversation ended.

So many of our conversations about screens begin with conflict, but underneath them are usually much older questions.

Am I raising someone who can make wise decisions when I'm not there?

Will they know who they are without constant comparison?

Will they learn to use technology…

or will technology learn to use them?

Those aren't screen-time questions.

They're parenting questions.

They're education questions.

They're questions for product designers, policymakers, employers, and all of us trying to prepare young people for a future that keeps changing.

That's why I wanted to create Hot Takes.

Not because the internet needs another opinion.

But because I think families deserve spaces where we can wrestle with these questions thoughtfully, together.

If you'd like to listen to our very first Hot Takes conversation, you can find it here:

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Peace, Love, and Hairgrease,

Arcadia

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