Barbies, Bots… and a Bed I Miss in Hong Kong 🛏️


Hi Reader,

How’s your summer going? I feel like I’ve been living in three time zones at once — after crossing the Pacific twice in just a few weeks, I’m finally back in Hong Kong and dreaming in my own bed.

Somewhere between airport lounges, sleepless flights, and a lot of parenting in motion, I stumbled into a rabbit hole: Character.AI, the chatbot app that’s suddenly everywhere with kids and teens.

It all started with a screen time alert about my youngest. One thing led to another… and soon I found myself simulating our family dinner table, testing out celebrity parents, and even chatting with a imaginary “boyfriend from camp.” My oldest tried it too. What surprised me wasn’t just what these bots can do, but what they quietly replace.

I pulled together my thoughts in this latest post:
👉 When Barbie Met the Bot: Why Character.AI Is Not Your Kid’s Imaginary Friend

If you’ve got kids at home (or scattered across time zones, like me), I hope it sparks a conversation — maybe even over your real dinner table.

More soon — and sending a deep exhale from wherever you’re reading this. School will be back before we know it, so let’s all start practicing our teacher “thank-yous” now!

Warmly,
Arcadia

P.S. Hit reply and tell me where your summer has taken you — I’d love to hear.

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